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Thursday, November 18, 2010

The Sting of a Good-Bye.

I'll see you later then', 'Bu-bye', 'Catch you later', 'Hope to see you soon'; from
the simplest good-bye to the oddest hug, we all know how much seeing off someone sucks. No matter how far you're going there always is a spark inside you which ignites the fire within you as soon as you start covering the distance.
All you can think of is how easily that moment passed away which you will be remembering for a very long time. It's like that fire which has been started up inside you after you say good-bye ix spreading like a disease. You question yourself, "Is this good-bye worth saying?"

People amuse me, how they can never really care when they see someone they love, leave.
When I say leave, mind me it stands even for the tiny bit of 'Ok honey I am leaving for off
ice' as well.

Sometimes when I take a look around me and see people; people who think that it really doesn't matter if they let the little emotions go. But believe me for some people those tidbits of emotions mean a lot.

Here's the catch, when people show how much they don't care, actually they do. Deep inside either it's the care which holds them from letting go or the negligence which
is responsible for the coldness.

In general, there are many ways people try to act smart when it comes to hiding that fire which I mentioned before, while they say good-bye. All that wiping away some dust particle from your eye, that coughing due to cold, all those 'hurry up you're getting late', those 'I hope you're not forgetting something' and that frequent inquiry of 'When will you come back'. Translation? "Hell yeah I don't want you to leave".
So, no matter how good the cause is, one requires a strong heart to say good-bye. Although we might have said good-bye many times but yet we know that it stings. It's like you're running towards the possibilities of finding options.
Like you want to trade places and see what it feels like to be in their shoes and you realize that the person doesn't care? What if it's only you, they're running away from? All those emotions come rushing back.
Those states of deliriousness you went through before. But I guess sometimes, you just have to let go. No matter how hard it is, you have to say good-bye and when you accept this thought; it's time. Time to close your eyes and push back those tears, those memories and above all those feelings, which were once worth having.

"What we can't do is live our lives afraid of the next good-bye because chances are they are not going to stop. The trick is to recognize when a good-bye can be a good thing - when it's a chance to start again." America Ferrera

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